Tuesday, November 10, 2026

Andrea and the horse blanket


Back in 1988 mid 89 I'd changed apartments five times since arriving in NY straight out of college, not landing any good deal for a share or a living space. In September of 89 i got a job as a dessert waiter at a bakery cafĂ© in Park Slope called Cousin John’s Bakery, at the time owned by John [the baker-chef] and his cousin Louis [businessman extraordinaire!]. 

The manager at the restaurant was a woman from Germany named Andrea. She had the lease on the studio apartment above the restaurant. A month after starting work, she let me know she was giving up the apartment and asked if I wanted to take it over. At the time, the rent was $340 a month for the sublet. When I took the lease over, it went up to $406 around 1990. I lived in that apartment for the next 31 years, with a mix of boyfriends and cats along on the journey. 

Andrea left a wool horse blanket in the apartment that I kept since, as a reminder of the incredible good fortune she had brought to me. Andrea passed away in the middle of the ’ 90s of cancer, but I have kept her in my heart; she changed my life forever. By 2021 the rent had grown to only $828 a month.

I never knew what to do with the blanket; it was a radiator footer for a decade, then when the pandemic came and I finally left that apartment and bought a home down south, the blanket came along. I recently finally made it into a little cat bed so my kitty Nee Nee can now appreciate the warmth of Andrea’s blanket too.